When a Woman is Done There’s Nothing to Change Her Mind

The wish for love is very strong in every woman and because of that she gives the best from herself to save the love and the relationship in which she is.

The offered love from a woman is unconditional and as a result of that she fightsstrongly with all obstacles so that she experiences happiness and fulfillment in the ongoing relationship.

She can bemistreated, but still struggle for the love of her life and try to get the most out of the relationship. If you are with someone like that in a relationship, do your best to keep her and show her howmuch you love and respect her.

But, there is a limit to what can a woman take in a relationship for just a little bit of love and happiness. So, when she decides is over, it is really over. She doesn’t turn back anymore, and when such thing happens she thinks on only these things.

  1. She is no longer loved

Probably the only thing that every woman seeks in a relationship is love, and if you offer it to her unconditionally she will give it to you double. She will appreciate you, and stay with you, in good and bad in life.

  1. She has been taken for granted

If she is not appreciated, your woman will leave you. She has probably tried everything to keep the relationship, but when she realizes that it comes only from her side she will walk out. The feeling that she is taken for granted will overweigh and she will realize that it is not worth it anymore.

Here it is what Justice Schanfarber, a counselor, and certified Hakomi therapist, says regarding this issue:

“Women leave for many reasons, but there’s one reason in particular that haunts me, one that I want men to understand: Women leave because their man is not present. He’s working, golfing, gaming, watching TV, fishing…the list is long. These aren’t bad men. They’re good men. They’re good fathers. They support their family. They’re nice, likeable. But they take their wife for granted. They’re not present.”

  1. There is no reason for her to stay

She will end the relationship if she feels that she is no longer needed or loved. Toxic relationship is something that does not want, and because of that she will end it for sure.

  1. She has been alone for too long

Although in a relationship, she feels that she is alone as her partner is not there either physically or emotionally. When she realizes that she does not need to be in a relationship anymore. In order for the relationship to work both partners must fight for it. If her partner does not show any effort in keeping the relationship, she will walk out from it. She will stay only if she knows that her man is there for her, someone who will support her all the way in life and love her unconditionally.

Experts on relationships like Randi Gunther, a clinical psychologist and marriage counselor for over 40 years, as well as the founder of heroiclove.com, states the following on this issue:

“It must be a parallel path. Both men and women must separately find their own balance between their need for independence and their desire for ongoing commitment. As integrated individuals in their own right, they would then have the capacity to create a relationship that is more than the exchange or sum of the parts. Committed partners who are willing to fight for that innovative solution will find the way.”

  1. She knows she deserves better

Women do many sacrifices for their relationships, but that does not mean that they are not aware of their self-worthiness. Therefore, when she comes to terms that she is not treated well or the way how she deserves it she will leave for sure. Women have the need to grow, learn, love and be loved, and if they do not get any of this, then for them there is no point in staying in a relationship. Plus, they will get tired of constantly seeking the attention they need and deserve.

If you want to keep your relationship with the woman who you are with, then take the advice from Mr.Schanfarber:

“If you think you’re present with your wife, try listening to her. Does your mind wander? Notice. When you look at her, how deeply do you see her? Look again, look deeper. Meet her gaze and keep it for longer than usual, longer than what’s comfortable. If she asks what you’re doing, tell her: “I’m looking into you. I want to see you deeply. I’m curious about who you are. After all these years I still want to know who you are, every day.”

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